April 2025

The end of April, and that means a few more stitches for 2025.

April, detail

It’s been a busy month, and next month might be even busier.

the end of April

Mostly, as always, a few stitches with no plan or design. Just choosing a colour, threading a needle and beginning. And isn’t that how most days begin too? We set out as usual, never knowing what will happen next.

April, detail

I’m enjoying the spring palette, in real life as much as here in stitches.

April, detail

It occurred to me recently that in four years of doing this I’ve never yet missed a day. If I did miss a day, I’d leave it blank. The point here isn’t to fill a cloth with stitches, it’s to sit and witness time as it passes out of my life. If I forgot to stitch, or didn’t have time (the irony!) then I feel ‘catching up’ the next day would be kind of missing the point. I would leave a blank space to remind me that on that occasion I didn’t slow down enough to watch those few minutes ebb away.

The other side of time is always worth a look. Knots, loose ends, a scramble of thread, but that’s how it is.

The other side of April

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Today is shaping up to be quite full. People are writing to me to tell me I haven’t got much thread in the shop. I know, thank you, I’m onto it. The shop will be closed for a couple of days while I attend to this:

threads for dyeing

Dyeing, washing, drying, sorting, winding, labelling, photographing and listing a batch of thread takes about a month, so thread update maybe towards the end of May, if all goes well.

March 2025

I don’t pass the time, the time passes me. Every day I watch it go, picking up speed as it hurtles further away.

March 2025

There were daffodils for St David’s Day, and a row of dancing women for International Women’s Day.

March 2025, detail

There was a bouquet for Mother’s Day (here in the UK it’s the fourth Sunday in Lent).

Mother’s Day flowers

There was equal day and night for the Spring Equinox.

March 2025, detail

Some of these days are tutorials on my YouTube channel here.

shamrocks for St Patrick’s Day

Today we have blue skies.

The other side is a reflection of sorts.

the other side of March

Three months gone. A quarter of the year behind us.

First quarter

A reminder that this is the last day for the Early Bird price on my Make a Simple Sketchbook course and my Painted Collage Papers course. Courses are pre-recorded; you get lifetime access; you can download lessons or watch online as often as you like; learn entirely at your own pace.

April is going to be very busy – there is a lot going on, which I will share when I can.

Erratum: PDF25 template

Oh dear.

I guess it had to happen sooner or later…

The keen-eyed among you will have spotted a slight error in the April page of the 2025 daily stitching template.

whoops

It looks like I’ve omitted to erase the vertical line that runs between 9 and 10 on the template, circled in red.

I hope the solution is fairly obvious, but you just need to choose either the vertical or the horizontal line that separates 9 and 10. From the positions of the numbers, it looks as if my intention was for the division to be horizontal.

I wouldn’t mind, but I (and another person) checked these templates about a hundred times before publishing them.

I guess this is proof, if it were needed, that (a) I’m human and therefore fallible, and (b) that everything I produce is hand-drawn.

My sincere apologies for the error and for any confusion caused. Easily remedied, I hope.

And I hope the rest of my week – and yours too – passes without further frustrating errors.

Cherry blossom

The ornamental cherries are starting to flower here, so today’s daily stitching is a celebration. You can see it in progress, together with written instructions, on my YouTube channel here.

cherry blossom, 15th March daily stitching.

Happy International Women’s Day

Intuitive Daily Stitching for 8th March, celebrating International Women’s Day.

There’s a video and brief written instructions for this on my YouTube channel here.

International Women’s Day 2025

Have a lovely weekend.

February 2025

Always a short month, but this year it seems shorter than usual. I’m ending this month with an anniversary, as today is a year since we moved in to our current home.

Home

It’s taken a while for it to feel like home, but it does now and I’m looking forward to seeing our new garden grow a bit more this year. The seeds and ideas that we plant can take a while to yield visible results, and what starts as a scrap or fragment becomes part of something much bigger once it starts to grow. It all happens in its own time.

I’ve enjoyed using up scraps and odd ends this month.

circular form made with a scrap of silk fibre
curled spiral scrap of silk fibre

Running stitch, whipped running stitch, and couching are probably still my favourites. I like lines. Time lines, perhaps.

mid-February

Mostly it’s mark-making with needle and thread.

early February

There is a lovely darn on the edge of this linen, presumably made many years ago. I’m guessing this linen was probably hand-woven on a home loom because the width is much narrower than a machine-made sheet would be, and the selvedge that you can see beside the darn had originally been in the centre of the sheet where two widths had been joined. Someone, long ago and in a different home, carefully mended this cloth for the future, and their future is my present. Time does stand still sometimes.

mended

Holding time in stitches, weaving between past and future.

The long view:

February

And the other side:

the side we don’t show the world

Onward to March. Marching onward. See what I did there.

Have a lovely weekend.

February from above

January 2025

January can be a long month for many, particularly if you don’t like winter, but for me it flew by as quickly as any other.

January daily stitching

As always, it was a case of threading a needle and beginning, with no preconception of how it might turn out. There are some blocks I like less than others, but that’s to be expected with this make-it-up-as-you-go approach. It doesn’t matter whether I like it or not. It’s there as a witness to the impermanence of human time.

January daily stitching, detail

As always, I’ve used a variety of silk and cotton threads in different weights, from chunky boucle yarns to very fine silk. Life’s rich tapestry, and all that.

January, detail

The earliest days of January feel quite far away now, but they’re not so distant in the great scheme of things. We’re now as far from early January as we are from the end of February, which is probably a sobering thought. By that time, one-sixth of the year will be behind us.

early January

Time is always running faster than I am. It’s not so much a question of trying to catch up, it’s more an acceptance of the fact that there probably isn’t enough time to do everything I want to do. Tasks take longer as you get older, I find.

Today’s block is a spiral, couched in cotton perle 8 thread.

31st January

I always think of time as a spiral, with us travelling from the outer circles towards the centre throughout our lives. I think that’s why time seems interminable when you’re a child, and why it seems to speed up as you get older. It doesn’t, it’s just that the circular paths are a little shorter every year.

As far as the daily stitching is concerned, time is a long strip of linen. February, and the rest of the year, are ahead.

February and the rest

For anyone who has been disappointed by the news that my Facebook group (Stitching Life Community) will be closing shortly, there has been a surprise reprieve. Shannon has developed a new group for hand stitchers (daily stitching and more): Our Daily Thread. What a perfectly brilliant name for a hand stitching group (I wish I’d thought of it!) It’s a fabulous way to keep our lovely community together so you can continue to connect and share your wonderful work.

And a postscript for any new subscribers – three blog posts in one week is not my usual standard. Normal services (once a week, if that) will now be resumed.

Wishing everyone a lovely weekend.

Blue Monday

The third Monday in January (2025) is supposed to be the most depressing day of the year. It’s nonsense, of course (though I guess some of you in the US may not be in agreement right now…) The concept apparently was invented by a travel company in 2005, to sell more holidays, and only applies to the northern hemisphere because of the cold weather and the short daylight hours here. As you know, I love the winter and the chilly, grey, short days. I also like January, blue, and Mondays, so I’m just here today to disprove the theory. I hope you haven’t fallen for the marketing/sales hype that’s trying to persuade you to feel miserable today. You might want to look away at this point if you don’t like blue, though.

Today’s daily stitching had to be blue, if only to justify the title of this post.

20th January daily stitching

And a closer look:

lifetime (cross stitches) piling up – 🎶 earworm by Talking Heads, ‘Lifetime Piling Up’

Recently I’ve been gathering together some little zero waste samples that I put together last year. These are just tiny scraps of fabric laid on a foundation, covered in a sheer fabric, and randomly (or purposefully) stitched. I thought it might be nice to compile them into a mixed media sketchbook. More on this later.

zero waste sketchbook page

I’m doing zero waste with collage papers too, using all the tiny scraps and strips of painted papers, letting the stitched samples and collage elements begin a little conversation.

stitch on the left, painting and collage on the right

It’s all very intuitive and kinaesthetic. The hands start doing something with fabric or thread or paper, and the brain eventually gets interested enough to join in. You have to start doing the work in order to do the work.

There are a few more basted samples that need stitching.

zero waste samples using selvedges and hand-dyed scraps
about 8″ square, layered scraps and sheer fabrics, ready for stitching

And a box of glorious blue threads vying for attention.

🎶 blue, blue, electric blue 🎶 earworm by David Bowie, ‘Sound and Vision’

So when I say ‘wishing you a Blue Monday’, I mean it in the happiest way possible.

On tension

Not the everyday stress kind, but the tension in stitching. I’ve had a few messages recently from stitchers asking what kind of hoop or embroidery frame I use. If you’ve been here a while, you’ll know that I hardly ever use one at all.

I have a variety of frames, from the tubular/modular plastic kind to the traditional round wooden hoops, and I don’t get on with any of them well enough to use them regularly. I also don’t do ‘proper’ formal embroidery very often, the kind that needs stretching and framing. If I did, then I’d have to learn to stitch in a hoop more consistently.

If I do have to use a hoop, I prefer square/rectangular frames like these by Nurge (no affiliation, I just like them):

rectangular embroidery frames

I prefer these because I never understand why most embroidery hoops are circular when the grain of fabric is square. With a round hoop, there’s always a danger of overstretching the bias into the frame and distorting the fabric.

Here are some of the reasons I don’t like using a hoop, and these of course are my personal preferences, not in any way an instruction not to use a hoop. Most stitchers seem to like them.

  1. I don’t like the way you can only see a little section of the work when using a hoop. I like to see the bigger picture throughout. I find it hard to stay connected to the whole cloth when I can only see and handle a bit of it at a time
  2. I don’t like the way the fabric is stretched taut (and I know you don’t have to have it drum tight). I prefer to feel the weight of the cloth in my hands as I stitch
  3. I don’t like the way the edge of the frame crushes previous stitches when you move on to another area. If you’re working on something very textural or layered, it’s sometimes too bulky to fit in the hoop comfortably
  4. Unless you have a hands-free frame on a stand (and they come with their own separate issues, in my experience), you have to reserve one hand for holding the frame and it becomes cumbersome
  5. You can’t easily see what’s happening on the back of the work without turning the whole thing upside down

For informal embroidery, or general hand stitching like the daily stitch journal, I find it’s very easy to manage the tension without a hoop. Half the battle is having the right fabric: if your fabric is too lightweight or slippery, then (probably) hello Mr and Mrs Pucker. But then sometimes you might enjoy that effect, where the stitches pull slightly too tight and cause undulating ripples across the surface. If you’re working on medium weight cotton or linen, then it’s fairly easy to maintain an even tension.

stitching circles

Circles are probably the trickiest thing to stitch without a hoop, because it’s very easy to pull the thread fractionally too tight, and that will cause puckering. General good practice is to support the work on a table (sit upright, it’s good for your posture) so that you can hold the bit you’re working on as if your hands were the hoop. The rest of the cloth just relaxes on the table.

circles in progress

If you work slowly, you can check as you go that the fabric isn’t pulling under the stitches. You can use a thumb to press each stitch into the cloth, which also helps to check the tension. I sometimes get irate messages on Instagram saying ‘get your thumb out of the way, I can’t see the stitch’. The thumb is an essential piece of equipment if you don’t use a hoop. With practice, you can feel when the tension is right.

14th January daily stitching

There’s a section on managing the tension in my Intuitive Daily Stitching course, which might be helpful to beginners.

So there we are. How many of you prefer to use a hoop?

December 2024

Memories of days past

The last day of December and the 2024 stitch journal is complete. A map of my year.

2024 stitch journal, 31″ x 30″, hand-dyed threads on vintage linen

366 days, 366 blocks, a few simple stitches marking the passing of each day.

Looking back

Days of different shapes and sizes, different colours and textures. Minutes, hours, and days that fill a life.

early 2024

This is what I mean by Stitching Life. It’s verb, noun, not adjective, noun. Stitching my life, to be more precise.

2024, detail

Every month seems to pass in a blur, however much you try to slow it down. December has been no different.

December days

I like the way this cloth displays its memories in a non-linear sequence. Because of the way I laid out the monthly blocks, the month directly above December is May, and I like the way memories of the summer sit next to the winter days. November sits underneath June, early winter sharing an improbable border with midsummer. But the flowers of summer became seeds that sleep in the winter earth, ready to wake up and grow again in the spring.

days like fields

I guess stitches are seeds too.

2024, detail

The stitched area measures about 31″ square. The fabric is the French cotton/linen bed sheet that I used last year and the year before. Next year (tomorrow!) will be the last of it.

looking back

Its function is to be a visual depiction of time passing. It’s also a mini-reference library, showing the effects you can create with a small range of very simple stitches.

It will rest in the cover that I made for it earlier in the year.

stitch journal storage
it’s a wrap

It feels right to put the year away like this, on New Year’s Eve.

And away

Ready to continue tomorrow.

hello 2025

Not starting again, just continuing. That’s what we do every day, all our lives.

Next year will be long and thin, only because that’s the shape and size of the last strip of bed sheet. If you want to try something similar, there’s a stitch journal FAQ page here on my blog. There’s also my Intuitive Daily Stitching course with instructions on how to work and combine a range of simple but effective stitches. I also show you how to choose suitable fabrics, threads and needles for your daily stitching. The course is prerecorded so you can learn at your own pace, and comes with lifetime access so you can watch as many times as you like. You can find my daily stitching templates here, or of course you can design your own.

simple stitches

Tomorrow, we go on. Wishing you a happy and peaceful 2025.